2011年1月27日 星期四

A DICTATOR of Taste

So I was watching Gossip Girl the other day,
and Blair was so depressed when Dan told her that "You are the dictator of taste!"
"Yes, that's right," she smiled, then off to chase her dream again.

Everyone should be a DICTATOR of SOMETHING.
With that something, you vision the future, create the best, and defeat the rest with absolute confidence. You do not have to be the best at it, nor get the deepest knowledge about it, nor own the most fabulous experience with it. The SOMETHING is what you care and hold a strict standard or threshold with. IT HAS to be done in your way. The standard can be high/low, bizarre/classic, crazy/logical.

It is like the unstoppable feeling of tapping on someone's shoulder and tell him/her that her blouse's label is flipped out and make them fix it otherwise you will help turning the label in for him/her.
It is like the tickling feeling on your finger tips of restoring the piece of chocolate left on the border of a plate to join the other pieces lining up peacefully at the centre of the plate in a buffet.
It is like the words almost slipping out of your mouth when you hear some wrong concepts or stupid doubts in random conversations overheard in a bus or MTR.

This something also drives your passion because it triggers your irrational acts,
stimulates your motivation because it has to be YOUR way and no tolerance in slight deviation or alternative.

It can be food, car, books, architecture, fashion.... you name it.

I think I found mine, when I enjoyed my whole hour reading and discussing the difference between cable-stayed and cable-suspension bridges.





緣份

地球的人口接近七十億,兩個人能在茫茫人海裡相遇,怎可能不是「緣」?但關係能否持續下去,卻是「份」,並不是單方面的努力所能維繫。
我重視「份」多過「緣」。「份」體現了雙方的共同付出,經得起時間考驗。至於「緣」,不過是一場相遇而已。相遇又如何?相遇大曬嗎?相遇了就等於相愛一生?你以為百年難得一見的「相遇」,其實每秒鐘在地球上可能發生七萬幾次,沒有什麼大不了。真正大不了的,是相遇以後,相愛一生。
Everyone fancies that magic moment, to fall in love. Falling in love takes only seconds. The excitement of getting to know someone new, reveal the mysterious thoughts, the tickling feeling of stomach and the pounding sound of heart beats.
But a relationship is so much more than that, 份 is what we can build on through care and tolerance and trust, yet 份 is always something that we Neglected and Denied when a relationship ends.
If 緣 is a gift from god, then 份 is the part that shows the power of love, the gift that you handmade for your love.
But disagreeing with Daisy (which seldom happens...), I think 緣 and 份 are important. Because, after all, with out 緣, you won't even have a chance to start developing 份.
Like everything else in your life, when God gives you the present, you would still have to cherish and make a good use of it to appreciate.

2011年1月24日 星期一

My 23rd Birthday

Thankful,
is the one thing I feel in January, the first month of 2011,
the start of new journey,
the rejuvenated energy to ambitious goals.


All are made significant, and special because of you, my family and friends.
You are the guidance, support and belief.
With you, I am brave enough to move forward to the unknowns, as I know I always have you to fall back on.
With you, I see and believe in the goodness in myself.
With you, I learn how to love and care.
And lastly, I will take the chance to be a bit more cheesy in my birthday,
to thank god. I am truthly greatful to be closer to You than I ever have in my life.



Be a better self everyday, Chan Wing.




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Devil Cake @ FSP

Hotpot marathon with church buddies :)

linakuma from vickysan



January birthdays of my family...except that it should say "wendy" instead of "candy".... this unique combination will hopefully not happen again...:)

omg... 15 years of friendship with sally...!

Appletini*



Birthday party @ FSP



Dana --> UI --> ?
all time buddy..?





2011年1月23日 星期日

Not in the plan.

You are not in the plan.
You are the unexpected.
In or out?

Easy...
Don't take it too seriously, gal.