地球的人口接近七十億，兩個人能在茫茫人海裡相遇，怎可能不是「緣」？但關係能否持續下去，卻是「份」，並不是單方面的努力所能維繫。
我重視「份」多過「緣」。「份」體現了雙方的共同付出，經得起時間考驗。至於「緣」，不過是一場相遇而已。相遇又如何？相遇大曬嗎？相遇了就等於相愛一生？你以為百年難得一見的「相遇」，其實每秒鐘在地球上可能發生七萬幾次，沒有什麼大不了。真正大不了的，是相遇以後，相愛一生。
我重視「份」多過「緣」。「份」體現了雙方的共同付出，經得起時間考驗。至於「緣」，不過是一場相遇而已。相遇又如何？相遇大曬嗎？相遇了就等於相愛一生？你以為百年難得一見的「相遇」，其實每秒鐘在地球上可能發生七萬幾次，沒有什麼大不了。真正大不了的，是相遇以後，相愛一生。
Everyone fancies that magic moment, to fall in love. Falling in love takes only seconds. The excitement of getting to know someone new, reveal the mysterious thoughts, the tickling feeling of stomach and the pounding sound of heart beats.
But a relationship is so much more than that, 份 is what we can build on through care and tolerance and trust, yet 份 is always something that we Neglected and Denied when a relationship ends.
If 緣 is a gift from god, then 份 is the part that shows the power of love, the gift that you handmade for your love.
But disagreeing with Daisy (which seldom happens...), I think 緣 and 份 are important. Because, after all, with out 緣, you won't even have a chance to start developing 份.
Like everything else in your life, when God gives you the present, you would still have to cherish and make a good use of it to appreciate.
